It is fairly common to see single women wearing rings on their left ring fingers.
Perhaps it is an heirloom from their grandmother, or they simply want to deter creeps.
If single women do it, do single men wear rings on their left ring fingers too?
Like single women, men can choose to wear rings on whatever finger they wish. The most common reasons for a single man to wear a ring on the left ring finger are comfort, fashion, and symbolism. Similar to women, single men who wear rings on the left ring finger can be mistaken for being married.
We’ll explore this topic from a westernized perspective in order to gain insight as to why single men may choose to wear a ring on their left ring finger.
Just as a necklace or a bracelet can help women to calm their anxiety, a ring can perform a similar role for men.
After the body has normalized how the ring feels, not wearing the ring will create a sense of anxiety.
The motion of rubbing or twisting a ring can mitigate the sense of anxiety one feels by directing the focus of the person to a tangible object.
This helps to ground them back in the present.
For a single man who is right-handed, it is most logical to wear the ring on the left ring finger.
It is not scientifically proven that playing with jewelry actually has a positive effect on the brain.
However, scientists theorize that it activates different parts of the brain that help with cognitive functioning.
Fidgeting with a ring forces the person to focus on the mechanics of moving the ring about.
This helps to distract the brain and center it on what is being talked about at the moment.
Personal style is something that can be extremely important to men.
This includes not only the clothing choices they make but also the jewelry they decide to wear.
This can include wearing a ring on the left ring finger, even if they are single.
Doing this makes a statement about how they want to be perceived by those around them.
Adding rings to accentuate a personal style can go a long way.
A single guy who’s into alternative rock might wear spiky rings on every finger.
Even without the makeup and hairdos that happen for stage performances, the rings send the message that this person is into loud, exciting music.
The big, heavy rings with skulls or other dark images also convey this message.
It is important that when making a fashion statement with a ring on the left ring finger, there is at least another ring on the hand.
This will help to solidify the type of fashion that you want to convey to your audience.
If it’s just one ring, people might think that you are simply engaged or forgot to put the ring on the correct finger.
For men in Norway, wearing a ring on the left ring finger simply functions as a statement of fashion.
Because being wed is signified by wearing the ring on the right ring finger, jewelry worn on the left hand won’t cause any confusion.
The same holds for wearing rings on the left hand in Taiwan, where marriage is also signified by wearing the ring on the right hand.
This is also true for men in Russia, who tend to wear a lot of jewelry, none of which signify any sense of romantic attachment.
The reason a single man may wear a ring on his left ring finger can be influenced by what the ring stands for.
Some single men choose to wear a ring on that finger because it indicates that there is an intent for marriage or commitment to someone.
Another reason a single man may wear a ring on his left ring finger is to indicate the complete opposite: that they have no interest in marriage whatsoever.
This can help to completely discourage women without facilitating the need to have an awkward conversation.
For men in India, wearing a ring on the left ring finger symbolizes uncleanness.
This is because of the cultural expectations that have been ingrained in the community.
Within the culture, and in Muslim cultures as well, the left hand is considered to be unclean.
The left hand is used to clean the body and perform other dirty tasks.
It would be very uncommon, then, for a man of any marital status to be seen wearing a ring on the left hand.
This has been the traditional practice within India and so variations to this practice are common.
Perhaps the biggest drawback for single men wearing rings on their left ring fingers is that women will assume that they are married.
If they are actively seeking a romantic partner, this will certainly put a damper on the relationship.
However, if they are tired of women chasing after them, this tactic might work out in their favor.
Another drawback is the reaction people may have when they see him dating around.
People may assume that because he has a ring, he is being unfaithful to his significant other.
This could lead to a lot of unpleasant interactions with the people he closely associates with. No one likes a cheater!
Because men in western cultures do not wear jewelry to the extent that women do, it can lead to false assumptions about who the person is.
If a person sees a single man wearing multiple rings, they may think that he is a part of a “bad” group.
As with all decisions, it is important to remember what message is being sent out.
Wearing a ring on different fingers can mean and signal a variety of different things.
It could signal sexual orientation, hobbies and interests, ego-boosting accomplishments, and marriage.
All of these different factors need to be taken into consideration when deciding how you want people to see you.
But of course, if you don’t care one bit about what anyone else thinks, then by all means, wear the ring on any finger you want!